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Knowing Clients Personalities

One of the most difficult parts of being a courtesan is learning to see your clients needs. This is something that  is only done with time and practice. It is most often to your benefit to listen first and respond second. For example…

The Sterile Guy:

This name does not imply that the client is physically sterile.  This client is “sterile” in the sense that he lacks a certain amount of emotion or animation.  This is often times a very business-focused, driven individual.  For example, this could be your busy executive or Type-A overachiever.  His brain doesn’t stop.  He is constantly thinking about his next meeting or task.  Even though he has booked time with you for an intimate encounter, he still may not be all there with you mentally.  It is not your place to feel responsible if he can’t unwind and enjoy your time together.  You can only do your best.  I have met a number of these men and most have been very successful.  Yet, they were uptight and sterile on several levels.  With all that is client has on his mind, be forewarned, he may have a hard time getting an erection.

Talking about something light and not related to business is a good way to start.  You can continue on with offering a massage and doing your best to get him to relax.  This sort of personality can at times come across as a bit controlling.  If he is used to being the boss and getting what he wants, he may already have in mind how he wants the session to go.  As long as it is nothing harmful to you, just go with it and try to follow his lead.  He may also be very quiet or seem to be in deep thought.  Don’t be afraid to compliment him on his sexual skills or appearance.  Every man, no matter what his status, wants to hear positive reinforcement.   ~ Excerpt “The Courtesan Handbook”

Teaching Your Client

Not all men are great lovers. There is nothing wrong with a little instruction. Some men aren’t sure for proper technique on a woman.

This can be due to a number of reasons. You are in a safe open environment with him. If for some reason what he is doing is uncomfortable for you, speak up. You don’t have to be abrasive. You don’t have to be speaking for all woman.

You can make it fun and sexy. Show him how you like it. A little teaching session goes a long way.

Men often love to learn. Not to mention he will think of you each time he using his new tool.

Have a great day!


More About Fellatio

Added stimulation at the tip is typically very helpful. In early fetal stages the human anatomy is the same. I believe that is why tend to be more sensitive at the tip, due to the fact, that had they been female. This same anatomical area would have been the clitoris.

A few weeks after fertilization, the initial appearance of the human fetal genitalia is basically feminine: a pair of “urogenital folds” with a small protuberance in the middle, and the urethra behind the protuberance.

In typical fetal development, the presence of the SRY gene causes the fetal gonads to become testes; the absence of it allows the gonads to continue to develop into ovaries Thereafter, the development of the internal reproductive organs and the external genitalia is determined by hormones produced by fetal gonads (ovaries or testes) and the cells’ response to them.

If the fetus has testes, and if the testes produce testosterone, and if the cells of the genitals respond to the testosterone, the outer urogenital folds swell and fuse in the midline to produce the scrotum; the protuberance grows larger and straighter to form the penis; the inner urogenital swellings swell, wrap around the penis, and fuse in the midline to form the penile urethra.

If testosterone is not present, normal female development continues, with the development of a perineal urethra and the formation of a uterus, clitoris and vagina. ~ Wikipedia

This video is a bit cheesy. However, the information is helpful if you are not well versed in this area

Thoughts On Screening

To me, the single most important variable to screening is… you.  Not just your ability to obtain their information and verify it but our own personal intuition plays a large role is selecting the right client to see.  Most in the business call the intuitive part of the screening process “going with your gut.”

No matter how well a client screens there may still be something in your gut that doesn’t feel right.  I recommend that you always go with your personal instincts.  This is another area of the business in which not all money is good money.  A possibly dangerous or extremely uncomfortable date is never worth the income.

This is part of the reason I am so fond of Preferred 411. Each client has a profile so you can get a feel for who he is and what he likes ahead of time.


True Threesomes

In my opinion you have at least two kinds of threesomes. This does not include couples how have their own special needs.

The first type is a “two on one”. This means you can have any to ladies, bi or not. They make a show or double team the client. For the most part all attention is on him. Depending on your personality this may work. Many find it too much stimulation and can ‘t focus. To me this is more of a show.

The second type is what I really enjoy. In the “true Bi’ encounter both ladies are bisexual. This way during playtime the attention is spread. The man can lay back and have some great visuals or participate at anytime. To me this is a true threesome. There is a lot of love to spread around sort to speak. It’s like a little party and so much fun!

If you are looking into trying to threesome as a male or female. You may want an established female duo that is truly bisexual and love what they are doing. I have found those encounter to be the most memorable.

If you are an escort who is just not comfortable with a woman on an intimate level. Then I would say that a threesome situation is probably not right for you to offer as a service.


Have a fabulous Holiday!

Arden Moon





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