Meeting New Clients
Meeting new clients can be a bit of a dance you learn with time. Both sides are typically nervous. Neither knows just what to expect.
I feel as the courtesan it’s your job to help the client get past the nerves. Nervousness is to be expected. The sooner you can make the person feel as if they are in good hands the better. Initially you will need to read your clients verbiage and behavior. Some need your undivided attention. Others need you to take them away.
The key to this is listening. If he isn’t saying much, then it’s most likely good for you to take the lead. Make him feel at ease. A bit of humor is always good to help break the ice. If he’s talking to you about things that have been stressful then just listen. Then continue by taking his mind off the things that may be burdening him.
Not ever person will let you in enough to do this. However, it should be your intent to make your best effort every time.