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Dating As An Escort

Dating as an escort is a very common concern. Most likely it will remain to be until a time when there is less taboo around sexuality here in the United States.

I am asked most often if one should tell the person that they are dating. I feel this is a moral question. It is really based more on ones belief system. There is no right or wrong answer. There is only the answer that is best for you.

I would suggest you ask yourself the following when deciding which decision is best for your situation.

1) How will you feel about yourself if you are not honest?

2) Where would you like to see the relationship go in the long term?

3) If you are not honest initially. Will this person be hurt by finding the truth later on?

My personal dating experience is limited. I prefer relationships were I can be honest. Therefore, finding someone able to accept my career can be tricky. It is something I am comfortable with. At the same time it makes the relationships I do have that much closer for having shared my experience.

At the end of the day it is about what makes you feel comfortable. You want to have a healthy happy relationship. How you create that is ultimately completely in your control.

Best Wishes,


Escorting and Dating

This is a question I hear very often from escorts. Can I still date? What do I tell him?

There are escorts in very strong relationships. Some ladies are even married. I have seen couples out there that work together.

If you are an escort looking to date it can be hard. The preconceived notions of what you actually do can stand in the way. It’s hard for someone who hasn’t been in the business to understand in total what an escort does.

For the most part I see ladies who make up stories and don’t tell the person they are dating the truth. The advice I was given by my friends and family was similar. “Let him get to know you first”, they would say. To me this was lying. I didn’t want someone to fall for me. Then months later I’m faced with telling them the truth. At that point even if they do understand. Will they be upset I was dishonest for so long? I know I would be. My most successful and longest relationships have been with men in the adult business. Of course the chances of you meeting a club owner, dancer or male escort that you have feelings for is statistically low. I’ve been blessed.

My advice is to plan to not to date seriously or be honest. I don’t feel stressing yourself with lies or drama is worth it. Escorting can be an alienating position. It is tempting to go against your better judgement to fill the needs of the heart. Whether it is worth it for you in the long run, only you can decide. Make friends with ladies in the industry. I find that to always be helpful.

Follow your heart when it comes to dating and what information you share. People’s minds tend to be more open these days. You never know how true and deep things can run in a relationship.

I wish you all the best!




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